Margaret Helman

When couples are planning their wedding day, they often seek advice about ‘time lines’: how much time do we need after the ceremony and before the drinks are served and the party begins?

There is a simple formula to follow:

• Work backwards
• What time do you want the food to be served?
• Leave approximately an hour between this time and the end of the ceremony,

So, for a 6.45 pm food service, you would plan a 5.00 pm ceremony.

Most civil ceremonies last about 15 minutes. The documents signing takes about 15 minutes. So, allocate about 30 – 45 minutes for the complete ceremony.

I do not charge a set fee because all couples and ceremonies are different. I will be happy to discuss the options available to you when we meet.

If brides want to change their name on documents, for example drivers licences or passports you need proof of identity. Your legal marriage certificate can be used as proof of identity. Go to the Department of Births, Deaths & Marriages to find out more.

After the ceremony the marriage certificate is signed and witnessed. I return the original to the Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages. You then apply to the registry for a copy of the certificate.You can apply for a standard certificate or choose from a range of Commemorative Certificates containing visual images. Visit the Department of Births, Deaths & Marriages website to find out more.

You are permitted to be married by law in Australia and I can give you advice and assistance. Please contact me to discuss the process.

People living outside Australia can get married in Australia. Please contact me to discuss the process.

Two people must witness your signature on the marriage certificate.

In Australia, the couple getting married is required to lodge a Notice of Intention Application no less than 31 days before the ceremony. As your celebrant, I am required, by law, to sight your birth certificates; passports and divorce papers (decree nisi) – if appropriate or, in the case of death, the death certificate.

After meeting with you and discussing your wishes, I take responsibility for the legal paperwork, assist you to prepare a ceremony of your choice and conduct the ceremony in accordance with the law and your instructions.